{"id":1276,"date":"2013-09-19T18:45:20","date_gmt":"2013-09-19T13:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/?p=1276"},"modified":"2013-09-27T19:48:14","modified_gmt":"2013-09-27T14:48:14","slug":"improve-your-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/improve-your-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Improve your Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/husband-wife-shouting.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1277\" alt=\"husband wife shouting\" src=\"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/husband-wife-shouting.jpg\" width=\"316\" height=\"237\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/husband-wife-shouting.jpg 316w, https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/husband-wife-shouting-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/husband-wife-shouting-150x112.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 316px) 100vw, 316px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0<!--more-->\u00a0It is very very very important for people to realize that every couple fights.. Its just how they do, it \u00a0is what matters.<\/p>\n<p>Every couple argues with each other. Because two different people are living together. choices are different, way of thinking is different, sex is different, basically personalities are different.<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->The way how you handle an arguement and the situation can <strong>make<\/strong> or <strong>break<\/strong> a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>During arguements and fights between a \u00a0couple, it often happens that both express their views in such ways that other gets hurt. This often leads to people saying such things :- &#8220;I can&#8217;t take it anymore,&#8221;, &#8220;This relation has to end here. I can&#8217;t stand you more&#8221; bla bla.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00a0The first rule to successful marriage is to avoid arguements and conflicts.\u00a0<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>The main rule is to &#8220;COMPROMISE&#8221;, remembering no one is perfect in this world. And remembering the positive things about one another rather focusing on negative issues and negative points.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Remain positive whatever happens.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Try sorting out things sitting together peacefully.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Sit with your partner and ask what they think YOU DO WRONG!! Without arguing or clarifying. Just listen with patience where they think \u00a0you were wrong.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Avoid using loud tone of voice which often aggravates the situation.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t interrupt each other when listening to each others point of view or when he\/she tries to say something or explain himself\/ herself.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Do not call or put labels on each other during a fight.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Do not murmur or curse your partner under your breath. It often triggers the conflicts.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Never say negative things like &#8221; you&#8217;ll never change.&#8221;, &#8221; this is never going to get better&#8221;, &#8220;it will end&#8221;.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Try to understand each other \u00a0and each other moods and situations they are going through. One has to be cool and compromising while other is boiling hot.<!--more--><\/li>\n<li>Remember not to fight infront of the kids as kids get a bad influence on their developing personalities\u00a0and Never complain about your spouse infront of your kids.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1277,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes"},"categories":[20],"tags":[748,752,751,754,746,747,750,742,749,743,741,745,753,744],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1276"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1276"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1276\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1277"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1276"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1276"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blazeminds.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1276"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}